DBing European style, part 3

[Fartiltre]

Hi P4L
I hope you will drop by so I leave this with you!

Do not quit – do not throw in the towel!
You have been expecting things to happen – to you, to W and to your sitch. They didn’t happen but this does not mean that you have to give it all up. At the same time you have found out that sitch is different than you expected!
No wonder you are hurting like he.L.

You have been strong, much stronger than me, but you will have to find extra strength within yourselves now and properly again in the future.
You still can save your marriage but you will have to get a hold of yourselves and your feelings if not for M then for your children.

You are almost 5 months in and yet there’s a long way to go!
Remember the patience and all the other stuff you have been writing about in your threads.
Remember the words from VETs?
Remember the path you believed in 1 month ago?
Remember the strong P4L?
Remember the kind words Sandi2 wrote about you advising other people?
Remember how you looked at you, detachment, DBing…it all – just a few weeks ago?

You are acting on feelings! DON’T!
Do recall what you hoped to achieve and do realize that it is not too late?

Your sitch is different than you expected!
What about you?

F

I have prepared for the worst but that doesn’t mean I can’t hope and work for the best!!