You and I are really having similar thoughts these days! Yes, I have thought about filing. Not yet, but at some point in the not-so-distant future if H doesn't give up his EA AND start showing some baby steps back in my direction I don't think I can stand much longer.
Not because of the pain anymore, as AS said, but because I want to get on with my life. YEs, yes, GAL is getting on with your life, but as you know I am starting to get interested in the idea of dating.
Having someone else give you a tiny bit of the attention you've been missing (not to mention the eventual LOVE) is something I want again. And for me it has been AT LEAST 18 months since H has been involved in EA and another 6 that he has been emotionally absent from our M.
No, I will not wait forever. I agree you need to stir the pot.
I will say the separation, albeit very painful at first, was actually what helps me start moving forward very very slowly. I got the point where I also did not want to be around H. It is so much better for me when he is not around. So, I understand where you are coming from!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
