I didnt mean to downplay anything, or brush off your feelings. Youre entitled to them, and own them. I am just trying to get you to step back and look at the sitch from a different angle. I appreciate the praise, but trust me...I was right where you are in April. Many on this board fed me comfort and advice, I am merely passing along what I have learned, and what I have found to maybe not "work", but definitely what doesnt work.

I want you to feel confident, and strong...because those are the things that are going to attract your W back to you more than anything else besides your 180s.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013