I didnt mean to downplay anything, or brush off your feelings. Youre entitled to them, and own them. I am just trying to get you to step back and look at the sitch from a different angle. I appreciate the praise, but trust me...I was right where you are in April. Many on this board fed me comfort and advice, I am merely passing along what I have learned, and what I have found to maybe not "work", but definitely what doesnt work.
I want you to feel confident, and strong...because those are the things that are going to attract your W back to you more than anything else besides your 180s.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013