Wow Jeack! Reading that text convo let me see exactly what I was doing wrong months ago. You've got to keep it short. You can have all those feelings you just can't let W see them at this moment. It is a huge turnoff. Once I realized this and really started to do it is when W says she starting noticing changes


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it