Sounds like our sitches have some similarities, in that distancing from our husbands hasn't seemed to work for us.

I sincerely hope your husband REALLY tries to leave the OW behind & make things work for your family.
Sorry you are going through this...
Hugs!

H48 M46
T26 M25
S25 D21
10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S
10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away
H Done 1/13
H tells S he wants D 2/13
NO R talk since - nothing filed
We live together weekends