Bluedown...trust me brother, I understand. My W and I were together for 16 years. She is my sun and my moon. I love this woman with all my heart. However, I have come to the realization that she has checked out of the relationship...and no amount of pining away, pursuing, or wishful thinking at this point will change that.

So what are my options? Feel sorry for myself and be depressed everyday? Or, move forward on working on myself, and knowing that despite my personal feelings...I did everything I could to save the M. I hit the gym, go out and catch a movie, a bite to eat...and spend time with my SS.

Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013