Does it matter if its WAW or MLC, treat the same?

[RosaLinda]

Thanks for posting on my thread Thumpered. I read thru your threads, and am so sorry for what you've been going through, it sounds like five months of hell. It must be so hard for your and your kids. 

TVS gave you really good advice. Detaching is so hard, isn't it? Chuck is my DB coach too. He advised me to give my H lots of space, to be pleasant and approachable when he wants to talk, avoid relationship talks, and when he says off the wall or hurtful things, just try to validate his statements and let them roll off my back the best I can. Last session he added non-sexual casual touching. Things are sort of calm at home at the moment, he's still cold but not spewing, but who know what will happen from one hour to the next. 

I hope your W doesn't start hanging around with that woman -- she sounds like a BAD influence. I think I read in Divorce Remedy that an EA can occur between two women, as well as between a woman and man. I hope your W doesn't become too enamoured with the Low Life and her lifestyle

Good luck to you! Hang in there!