Part of it I had to take care of two kids and I just didnt feel sexy after giving birth to our 2nd child. And at that time I did not realize that I had pushed him away when he tried to be intimate with me. And next thing I knew its been a long time since I noticed that we haven't been intimate with each other and part of it was my fault for not communicating my feelings to him about that. I do have the DB book I haven't poured myself into the book I know I need to do that. I've been spending most of my time with my boys before I go back to work on Thursday. I know that is no excuse for not reading the book. Right now I just feel like spending all my time with my boys.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013