It is actually the opposite, we are getting along very well. My concern is that he has not expressed interest in creating a better relationship and many times in the past I have thought we were making progress only to have him say months later that "nothing is different".

I feel like we sort of jumped right back in, there is a little difference in other times of getting back together, but not much - except the way I am handling disagreements (overall anyway).

I am afraid I just gave him everything and didn't make him "work for it" since he is the WAS.


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13