Hi BC39.. I am feeling the same way as you right now.. I am married, with children, nice house, nice neighborhood, everything appears great from the outside... I am having the same issues as you, where my H sees me as more of a 'friend' than a 'wife', and I feel he is no longer attracted. I am desperately trying to think of ways to get that 'emotional connection' back... I am also at a loss as to how to go about doing that. Right now I am just trying to stay afloat, by doing my 180's and GAL. Staying in Limbo is definitely challenging to say the least. Keep up your PMA, and positive changes for yourself.


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.