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Odga,

WOOHOO! Letting her take the lead is great, yes? And see now you know what to do for VD. It is a rollercoaster ride, isn't it? Hope my H changes his mind like C did.

Her saying ILY and admitting she needed to say it more was great! I see you getting closer to the ultimate goal!

Hang in there, and keep doing what works!

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Good Morning Odga,

I am having withdrawl!!!

Where are the morning coffee positives??????????

Have a great U U & A day!!!!!


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Morning Pam - No post yesterday as I got up early and went to the gym to work out - doing that on Tuesdays and Fridays at 0-dark thirty or something like that.

Positives today -

1. Finally woke up at the gym (lol) but did have a good workout.
2. Had two short but good IMs from C yesterday -
3. had a good day at the office Business is up
4. went to bed early and got good nights sleep - noticed an IM from C that just said "Hi" on my home computer this morning that was time stamped at 10:13 last night. (unusual for her in that she usually goes to bed around 10)
5. Have Court all morning but should be a good day, and plans to workout tonight w/ C. (Gym folks, altho I wish it was the other)


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odga,

Just wanted you to know missed your posting yesterday!
I think you are doing a great job DBing!
LOL, did you say you woke up at the gym?! LMAO!

Still waiting for somethhing from my att. Was thinking that maybe I should call the states Att. and see if I can have the D dismissed myself or if he can help... Just another day in Limbo Land!

Have a great day!

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OK - notes on why no positives posted this morning -

Went to work out last night with C and our trainer - had a really good workout (legs are kinda sore today too) After the workout we went to Zaxby's to share a small order of hot wings and chit chat. As we started to eat I bent over and gave her a quick kiss, to which she said "Thanks, I needed that".

We talked and laughed some and when she said that she would be sore some I suggested that when she gets home she get into the (my) hot tub and soak some. After our snack and in the car she asked if I was comming over to hop into the hot tub with her. (Well..... let me think.....uh-Yes)

When I drove in the drive behind her she suggested that we move a few things around in the garage so I could get my car in so it would be warm in the morning. (strong indication that she wanted me to spend the night)

We then got into the hot tub - and looked at the stars, cuddled and hugged and kissed and ML. Moved up to the bedroom and had a great night cuddling. woke up and before coffee ML again.

Shared coffee on the coach before I had to go to work and we were watching Buster (our puppy) plan in the floor in front of us. She looked at me and asked if I thought that Buster and Callie (my cat) would be OK and play together again when they get "ba.." (pause) together again. (she almost said back together again.) - Very interesting question, she is thinking of us being back together.

Got an IM from her just a few minutes ago (had clients and could not respond much) that said she was having plesant thoughts.

Well I have to go to court now - but I go with plesant thoughts too.


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Hi Ogda~

Wonderful Wonderful Wonderful!!!

Keep up the positives!
I really needed to read your post today - Thanks!

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odga,

Doing the happy dance~^<>~~^^><~~!^^^^^^>>>><<<<<~~~~~~~! LMAO!

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Soooo where are the morning coffee positives????

It is going to be lunch time soon!

Hope you are having a great day!


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good morning all - sorry no positives yesterday and today - I had the scare of my life Sunday night and have been tied up till just before work today - had to take off all day yesterday - Sorry but I do not feel free to post anything but it was very serious and I would appreciate all my friends thinking of me and C and sending us a prayer or two.

I do feel that all is ok for now though (well as ok as it was last week)

Pam - thanks for listening to me this morning on the IM - I have signed up for another online coaching session and they will set me up as soon as possible.

Laurie - if you pick up on this - I need to talk asap - Michelle's office is trying to contact you too.


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{{{odga}}}

i am so sorry to hear of this turn of events, my prayers are with you to get to a place where you feel joy again

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