We had a mutual friend come over yesterday, he used to be a kid we babysat. He's now 23. Came over to ask me for a job. My wife said she didn't want to talk to anybody and went inside the house to get away.
About an hour later, one of my wife's friends (she's even older than my wife) came over WITH the 23 year old. Her friend leads a VERY promiscuous lifestyle, and it a complete alcoholic. Only going thru men faster than drinks. My wife got so excited about her arrival, they talked about going out, and having fun in the near future. Once she left my wife went right back into silent mode with me and watched her 80's reruns. At midnight her friend started texting her that she was still with the 23 year old we all used to babysit and she was thinking about sleeping with him. She was over at his place, with several more of his friends and was asking my wife to come over. She didn't go but stayed up texting her and laughing as she was texting. She wanted to go but didn't cause of work this morning.
I woke up this morning and couldn't help but wanting to look for an apartment. I came here to post instead. I'm honestly not sure how much more I can take. I rolled over last night and acted like I was asleep.
My question is do I say anything? Its not like I have any ground to stand on right now. She, of course, doesn't want to work on the marriage, things seem to be getting worse with her actions. I'm doing my GAL stuff, but that seems to be pushing us further apart.
