Oh Portia, I just wrote a note to you on Bea's thread, then saw that you had posted here also. Do you think you might just be going through such a hard time hanging on because of all of the recent losses and funerals, and the memorial service at the hospice? That's a lot for anyone to have to deal with in one week, but someone also trying to deal with their SO's MLC.
Maybe it's not that he does not care whether he loses you or not, maybe it is that his GF is back in the picture, and you know how these affairs consume our MLCer's minds. So he is just not in a good mental spot to contact you yet. 11 months is a long time, but not really that long in MLC time.
But Portia, you sound so fried, so done. It hurts to hear you hurting. You can accept that he'll have to contact you if he wants to talk to you. And you can always change your mind. I wish there was something I could do or say to help you, but I'm clueless and mired in MLC madness myself. Maybe one of the vets will post here, or on Bea's new thread.
