But pushing your agenda on her is NOT going to help you, it just isn't. You need to see the forest beyond the trees and be more patient, and follow the 37 rules, and stop thinking about what her time is consumed with.
True. I've just been struggling lately if I even want this M to work lately. Some days I feel I couldn't forgive her then the next I do. I guess this is normal to a point. She's done some pretty crappy things to me and I guess I'm really trying to find out within myself why I allow myself to be walked all over.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB