Snodderly I admit when I'm wrong. I think just talks of going to vaca house this summer and acting like there were no issues might have put pressure on her or made her feel I didn't let go at all. Acting like one big happy family and talking future talks got to her.
I'm getting close to calling her on the D word. There gets to be a point where that card gets tiring. I'm talking 2 years of saying D with no action. T2 not sure if your W played the D card so much.
Maybe subconsciously I was pursuiting her. All I can say last night I told her if she wanted to go file she could. I would not stand in her way. If she thinks D would bring her happiness then all I want is for her to be happy.
She said "ok I just didn't want to spring it on you or surprise you". I said ok thanks.
Yes she said "I'm afraid on how you will act" you are not easy to talk with and I don't want to go through the L's for everything. That our first mediator said he wouldn't take our case because of your attitude. BTW I told the mediator I wanted kids 50% split and holidays and W didn't like that and mediator said it wasn't realistic. So that made me a bad guy and yes at the time I didn't want to be in that office.
