Yeah, I'm with Kate on this, I think being honest is the best policy. I never offered up info to my H, but if he asked I told him. It just seemed so much like game playing to withhold when he would ask. I'm a straight shooter.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D