You have given such great advice to so many here, including me. I am far from a vet, but I think instinctively you know the right thing to do here. Pull back a bit and evaluate what happens.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013