New to This - An English Man In Trouble

[Hadlee58]

Hi Folks, A quick update:
I had a great weekend, out with the guys on Friday night, a day with the kids on Saturday and then a family day (all four of us) yesterday. The day went really well and i could see she enjoyed it, we laughed (something we havent done in a long time) and i even think she was flirting with me at some stages.
She asked me last night to sit with her to discuss 'us' and i tried my best to let her do all the talking (difficult to do!!) and it was very positive, she thinks that 2 weeks ago she thought there wasnt a cat in hells chance of us ever being together again however now she is swinging more to the want to try camp. She has said she has started to see some of the positives and even suggested she might have been depressed (not sure what to read into this..). She ended by saying that like me she is also tired of all that has gone on and thinks she wants to strive for a new us. I validated her comments as best as i could.
I cant help thinking that the work i have done in the last two weeks has helped alot, it started with me growing some balls and moving back home and then trying to get on with my life - for that alone i cant thank enough everyones stories i have read and everyone who has helped me with words of wisdon and advice.

I am by no means out of the woods yet and there is a lot of healing to be done, but one thing we both struggled with last night was how we move on from here, this has gone on for 4 months and in that time she has told me she doenst love me anymore etc some quite big bridges to rebuild. We both agreed that pretending all is fine tomorrow and like nothing happened doesnt seem like a good idea and that also a more drawn out 'getting to know you again' period doesnt seem like a good idea either.
Does anyone have any advice on how to play this or experiences?

Once agian thanks for all your help G.