Just popping in here while on vacation and the boys are supposedly asleep (and yes, it's a separate vacation without W, and so far am having a blast!).
Just want to echo 25yrs as this is how my sitch has played out:
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she may wonder what the heck just happened. She's a score keeper big time. She will measure her "Victory" by how miserable You seem.
The more at peace you seem to be (and fake it til you make it WORKS) the more she might wonder...maybe, just maybe it's HER...
This ^^^^^^^^ is playing out the last year or so...W is now looking inwards. I am just going about being me and damned determined to live a happy, content, productive life regardless (now that I finally figured it out).
Hang in there! T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
