You can't save your marriage right now Kel, but you can do damage to end it.

I know how you feel, we're both in the early stages of the game, but we're still in the game. Don't have regrets later that you didn't fully put in the work. The work starts with you and ends with you.

I know it's hard, he!! I'm right there with ya, but these first steps must be taken, they get easier.

When that anxiety kicks in, take a walk.