Accuray, I agree with what you are saying, as I have thought that myself. Why would she say and do these things, yet not put any effort into working things out. So, I guess the dilemma is, if I'm supposed to avoid any R talk, how do I bring this point up? From what I have read on other threads, a WAW feels "alive" again in their new life, and they fear they will have to give everything up that makes them happy to come back. So do I just go along with this and hope she eventually wants to come back or do I tell her that if she really meant what she says, she would be willing to work on it more and put forth more effort?
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
