Ok not good.
I started talking to her about vaca house and how to deal with bunny and she instantly went into D talk.

10 years of being unhappy .
I was calm because I was on Ativan .

She said she wants me to leave house. I said I would not leave my home or kids.
She said redic that all guys leave house.

Why would you want to stay in this marriage she said .
We haven't talked in 2 months . I said that was her choice . I'm ready to work on marriage . You asked for space. I said of course I would like our marriage back on track

She said divorcing me would make her happy. When I'm not around she is happy.

This all spewed in 10 minutes. No escalation.

At end I said would not stand in her way of divorce and told her what I thought was best for marriage . Working on it.

I did ask her how we worked on marriage since I've moved back. No answer.

She ended by saying I consider us separated right now. Sell the vaca house so I can move out. I made no comment