I would just ensure you're not both deluding yourselves. If she truly felt loving and affectionate, she'd be making plans to work with you to make things better and to reconcile. Instead, she's planning to stay where she is, get her own place to live, and pursue her full time job there.

Remember, actions speak louder than words -- a WAW will say all kinds of things, but what they do is more important.

I would suspect that she enjoys having you as an insurance policy, such that if things do not go well for her, she wants to feel that she can come home at any time and you will have her.

Personally I think it's to your advantage to have her question that a bit.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015