T, I was thinking of you today and felt that I wanted to say something to you.
I wanted you to know that I know that this is terribly hard for you. I know that it makes you sad and angry. I know that you miss your h and your marriage.
I felt the need to tell you this because of how I feel about you. I never want you to feel that I do not know that this has hurt you to your core.
You and I sometimes use our sense of humor to get us through the hard parts and that is really important. It has gotten me through some really tough things.
And I do believe completely what I write to you, that you will be ok, that you are handling this with such dignity and strength. I also want you to know that I understand.
This journey is so wrought with emotion. It is unlike anything you will ever go through.
It can leave you broken if you let it.
But you have such a spirit about you, T. Such strength. I have seen you grow and change and find yourself.
And I hope and pray with all my heart that your marriage is restored, that your family becomes whole and that you and your h make a new, stronger, marriage. One that you both forge together with what you have both learned. One that has an unbreakable bond because of the knowledge that you weathered the toughest thing you could and made it out the other side.
