I cracked this morning. I begged my wife by text message: "please don't do this". I was referring to the fact that she has made moves to separate our finances. Some government money appeared in our joint bank account today. I quizzed her on it. She said that since we are now separated....what? Thanks for the discussion.

I feel so low and i just want to lash out. Please help me to stop from doing something to make matters worse.


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014