I cracked this morning. I begged my wife by text message: "please don't do this". I was referring to the fact that she has made moves to separate our finances. Some government money appeared in our joint bank account today. I quizzed her on it. She said that since we are now separated....what? Thanks for the discussion.
I feel so low and i just want to lash out. Please help me to stop from doing something to make matters worse.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014