Thanks for the feedback. I thought that what I was doing was OK. Most of the time, she says it first. Occasionlly, I will say it first so she doesn't start to think that I only tell her after she says it first. I also throw it in at the end of texts sometimes too, because she will do it in some of her texts and I don't want to come across as cold. I hope that is still OK. Not sure if that is considered pursuing or not.
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
