Stung, I have no advice..but wanted you to know that my heart hurts for you & I totally understand your not understanding how the WAS seem to just "flip a switch" on years & years of a relationship with someone (I know they've gone through this grieving before we were fully made aware in most cases, but that small consolation. I know I could NOT hide my pain the way my H apparently did, because I was BLINDSIDED bigtime).

Hugs to you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this! Hang in there!


H48 M46
T26 M25
S25 D21
10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S
10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away
H Done 1/13
H tells S he wants D 2/13
NO R talk since - nothing filed
We live together weekends