Stung, I have no advice..but wanted you to know that my heart hurts for you & I totally understand your not understanding how the WAS seem to just "flip a switch" on years & years of a relationship with someone (I know they've gone through this grieving before we were fully made aware in most cases, but that small consolation. I know I could NOT hide my pain the way my H apparently did, because I was BLINDSIDED bigtime).
Hugs to you. I'm sorry you are dealing with this! Hang in there!
H48 M46 T26 M25 S25 D21 10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S 10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away H Done 1/13 H tells S he wants D 2/13 NO R talk since - nothing filed We live together weekends