You keep focusing on the why's OR you let your fear of losing her fill you with anxiety and dispair.
Stop asking why, stop focusing on her and her and deal with your fears so you can start moving forward (however that may look like).
Originally Posted By: sandi2
She depends on you too much to get too far away.
^^^^Bingo...
The way I see it, the R she wants with you is a co-parenting one - where you are around to help raise your son (and the second child she wants) because she does not want to do it alone.
I don't see any indications that she currently wants you for YOU and I am sure that is not what YOU want in a wife.
So let her go and live your life, because right now she has nothing to offer you.
If she ever wants you as a HUSBAND, she knows where to find you and she better prove it to you BEFORE you commit back to her or move in with her again.
You still have A LOT to live for, so get moving!
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Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
