GTO, IMHO, I agree with Tori about dating while separated. I think it can make us lose objectivity while we are healing and can actually do more harm if we have not yet decided what the state is of our current Rs/Ms are.

In the meantime congratulations on your transfer. It seems meeting up with your old friend really was a blessing in disguise.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home