Between what sandi and 25yrs said to you Crimson, I hope the following really sticks out for you:
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

She must fear losing you. AND Crimson, for God's sake, IF she does NOT fear losing you

or thinks she's losing you and does not care,

then it's time to let go for real.


I've struck out the part about her fearing losing you.

Only because she may... or may not... fear losing you. There is nothing you can do to CAUSE her to fear losing you.

If she's losing you and does not care, you WILL know.

If... IF... she FEARS LOSING YOU... you WILL ALSO know...

Still, IF SHE FEARS LOSING YOU... SHE... still needs to work on her stuff.

Warm and detached. LRT.