Think wife is having a MLC?

[chasingpavements]

I agree with labug, that how your wife is feeling and acting is definitely having a negative effect on you. I understand how that happens, as I am going through the same thing! Try not to read too much into how she is acting, and do not take it personally.

[sandi2]

If you are in-house separated, what part is separates? You aren't even in separate bedroom.

Personally, I think this arrangement could continue for years. Better known as limbo.

[Thumpered]

Just an update as ive moved over to the MLC forum. Got more advice/tweaking from chuck. A great investment, make it happen if you can its cheaper than divorce.

Each situation is different so dont just DB to db, make it work for your sitch. Still have a bad day here and there of course, but they dont feel the same and they're less frequent.

Im prepared to go either way.

Got the kids out of town for a little vaca. Gal gal gal