Hi NNP...I have and will. I did a little internet searching concerning rights in my state and did learn a few interesting things. Courts generally award alimony for up to 1/2 the number of years married...so for us that would be 12. Also, generally if a spouse hides assets, those are generally awarded to the LBS as well.

Obviously I have not wanted to go down this road and still don't. I think that is why I have put it off for so long.

Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14