Thumpered, your W doesn't have to say a thing and you've almost talked yourself into D.

Do you see than your mind is like an out of control freight train? And everything you are worried about is based on feelings. You can't make rational decisions based on your emotions.

Figure out who you want to be and start working toward that. It takes no interaction with her to make that happen.

Detach, detach, detach.

About the C question, Cs often will not see a married couple separately if they have seen them for MC. Some won't see either individually if they've seen them as a couple. I wouldn't read much into that.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss