I understand detachment, the articles and replies have been very helpful, still not sure if it fits when you are actually going through legal process of separation of children and assets. Also whether duing LRT you cannot use the lovingly detached if you are trying to break the pursuer chaser circle and use Sandi's rules.


Me 44
WAS 41
T 11
S 8
D 5
DB November 2012
EA and PA discovered December 2012
WAS moved out 4 May 2013
Share residence of S and D 50/50
WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.