Hey Newman, nice to see you here. My H wouldn't go to MC. That's why I've decided to work on this myself. I am seeing progress. Our R has never been the traditional type. We spend a lot of time apart. That has its good aspects and not so good.
I am reading a book which is helping me to get a different perspective on things, and I think it works particularly well in relationships like ours. I am learning to accept H the way he is. I spent a lot of years trying to change him. Urrggh men hate that don't they?? Its OK. I go up and down as we all do. I was frustrated with him this morning over something, then he turned around and did something that meant a lot to me.
Thanks for caring enough to offer support Newman. I appreciate it.
