I want to move back into my bed but my wife sees us as separated. We live under the one roof and my youngest son currently sleeps with her for security(whose security i don't know). I would like some advice on this. I feel totally pushed around but feel i may be motivated out of a desire to hurt.

I don't want to be deliberately difficult but i feel so downtrodden with sleeping arrangements as they are. If my wife moves out of the bed then there is only my son's single bet to move to...and he will want to sleep with his mum. I would feel like a complete %**&!@.

Any suggestions about how to proceed with this? Or should i just grin and bear my current sleeping situation?

Thanks

PS:this is a duplicate of a post i made this morning but i don't seem able to view it anymore...


Me: 49
W: 47
M: 19 T: 25
Son:19
Dau:13
Son:6
BD: Aug: 2012
Separated - same house: May, 2013
Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013
W looking to move out: January 2014
Dau says go, I move out: June 2014