I just had come across those 2 videos about 2 weeks ago.
I must have watched them 10 times each.
So amazing and so enlightening.

I too realized I now can relate to both those videos post BD.
Pre BD I would have not related to them at all.
For all the bad divorce has brought, it has brought me so much growth.

Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09