Okay, so last night cute D'ed dad that I have been texting a little texted me at 12:30am. Texts were light as usual until he said, "Too bad you can't hang out! I'm all by my lonesome."

I have to say in that moment I WANTED to go over to his house to hang out (nothing but to sit and have a conversation face to face). Actually, I have been thinking about the whole thing.

I don't want to date him, I don't want to have an EA or PA with him. I just want to have a friend to talk to, esp at night.

Is this so wrong? Will this cloud my view about my M or will it help to move me forward in life (as I feel more and more ready to do)?

I was nervous to bring this up here, but I figured you all will be honest with me.

I do know some people on here decide to date casually while standing, but that is not what I'm looking to do at all.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.