I'm having a really hard time with this whole situation I don't know how to handle this. I have tried to gal and I just can't move on. I know everyone keeps telling me to be very patient cause most affairs don't last right now they are in The fantasy stage. H spends the whole day with OW then I don't know exactly what time he gets home. I don't understand if he is so concern about how our boys will feel about this situation between their parents. He is never here to spend any quality time with them to show that he cares deeply for them. He is off spending all of his time with OW. This tells me that he doesn't care about our boys its bad enough that he left me for OW but now its like he left them too. I can see the hurt and confused they are cause he is not around like he use to be.


M:42
H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013