That is exactly what is happening. Me and his wife have many, many things in common... I' m a new version of her. Their communication is very low. It is like they don' t have anything to share or talk about. The routine took over their lives. He said he had a heart attack 5 yrs ago and has put his life into perspective.. He is from around here and said he always thought he would be coming back but knows his wife wouldn' t leave their actual town.. Now, actions and words??? He sais HONESTY is MAJOR for him. I just found out that the cell phone number he gave me is from a new phone he purchased a couple of weeks back. I was a secret friend.Talk about HONESTY...lol Eventho it is a messy situation, it made me see my ex' s way of thinking. He had set new goals for his life and i couldn' t reach them with him. The timming was WAYYYYYY OFFFFF... We have 4 kids and responsabilities and OBLIGATIONS. He chose out and he is living the abandonment he has put upon us 4 yrs ago.. At least, his was gradual... ( sorry for venting on this one )
