Now 2+ yrs time to get off this limbo

[leopoldstotch]

Hey newman sorry I've been away for so long. Trying to catch up on your sitch. I see you asked what would be if someone were in your sitch. Well speaking only for me I can say that after being in your sitch for two years and being in limbo I would most likely tell her that it's time for her to go. I'm sure she wouldn't be happy but she is the one who is choosing to have an EA.

IMHO the cake eating must stop and it really sounds like you are ready. To give you a quick update on my sitch our mediation is done and all that's left is is for us to get a lawyer to check over the agreement and to file for divorce. Last week my STBX started moving her belongings out of the house and as I'm writing this she is over her fathers house (that's where she's moving) painting her room with her sister. Next weekend she should have everything out of the house. I have started to date and I have to admit it feels strange after almost 26 yrs with her. STBX knows I'm dating and is ok with it. Funny how we now seem to get along better now that everything is over.

I'll be checking in with you more frequently newman.