Just wanted to throw this out there and see the responses.
What is the chance she's just playing games with me? Every response or comment ends with "isnt this what you want. A wife that just sits home and does nothing"
WTH? I'd been asking for weeks/months to go out, dancing, lunch, dinner, and out of nowhere I start getting this comment the last 2 weeks. Then just goes and watches tv and wont really talk at all. I found out today she's been eating very late lunches at work so she doesnt have to eat dinner with kids and I. But now that im not sure shes depressed, she doesnt have a problem texting half the night. It seems more like a game shes playing with me tonget me to move out. Opinions?
My opinion is you;re too much in her head.
About the "kind of wife you want" remark..did you complain when she went out previously, did things without you, didn't always do the "wife" stuff around the house? How much were you present in the day-to-day stuff around the house?
But the simple answer is, get out of her head and into your own. Mind-reading is seldom helpful.
Continue to make the changes in you that you know you need to make. Don't look to her for signals of what you should be doing at this stage of the process.
Walk you path.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
