I'm so glad your day at the theme park went well TVS! Sounds like the boys had a ball, and like your H was having a nice time bonding as a family. 

Your very clinical outfit for standing back to make observations made me laugh out loud. {Footnote: the constant good humor exhibited by many of the folks on this forum despite the horror we are all living blows me away sometimes. Thank you one and all}

Your observations are so interesting. He seems to be wavering back and forth. The "incidental" touching, lack of texting, good mood, patience with the boys. Then to start up the texting again last night, sigh... Maybe Frumpy Old Twinkle was a bit annoyed and insecure about you guys having such a nice day, and was pushing him. Back to scratching, I betcha!

TVS, I bet you will start to see BIG changes two weeks from now. Good changes! This is such a hard time for you because you have to live thru it. We on the outside can see his little changes, and know you're moving in the right direction. Always "slightly hot," NEVER frumpy smile


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17