Its tough; getting tougher

[amy1982]

Last nite H brought up the fact that he thinks we need to separate. I told him I would not stand in his way. He seemed shocked that I would even consider HIM moving out. He said "some people think they get to make mistakes & then choose the the repercussions" IOW "you sinned, now accept the consequences" He wants the girls & I to go on a 3 mo vacation so he has time & space to work things out.