I've found it easier to detach by following this advice which I read here:
Believe nothing of what she says and only half of what you see.

My W, as I knew her is gone, and so is your's. Do not look for her to come back.

Become the best person you can be.

I'm not sure I like the woman my W has become.
Maybe she'll have to win me back...

GL my friend.

M-41
W-37
T-16
M-14
S-14
BD-5/28/13