Why does she think you want a wife that sits around and does nothing? Is she angry you are going out and getting a life without her? I would politely ask her the next time she says that... doesn't make sense to me? Also, what kind of lies is she telling?
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.