Originally Posted By: Crimson

I hear you loud and clear, 25. And even though it is difficult I intend to hold my ground on more matters. As history would have it, this ends up in her getting angry and/or proclaiming that "everything has to be my way". It hurts on so many levels to deal with that. Specifically, I don't like letting her down in general - but especially when it promotes her getting angry and moving further away because I am a "jerk". She'll probably say my changes aren't real or something.


Do you think she knows this?

My 3 year old daughter talks to/treats my XW totally different than she treats me or her teacher. People learn pretty quickly what they can and can't get away with from whom.

Originally Posted By: Crimson
I don't know if she can or knows HOW to swim, 25. No one ever taught her.

Crimson

It doesn't sound like she wants you to teach her.

-PM


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