I don't know why it seems that way. But it seems at her pace. We haven't had sex or even slept in same bed together. I think it might seem that way because I am going to her more. Yes, W has committed. Even MC told me yesterday before wife got there that I didn't need to worry about that. That this is what W wants, but its going to take a little time to get through feelings of OM. I never even thought about havin to deal with that aspect through all of this. Watching her get over another guy is so incredibly hard.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it