I don't know why it seems that way. But it seems at her pace. We haven't had sex or even slept in same bed together. I think it might seem that way because I am going to her more.
Yes, W has committed. Even MC told me yesterday before wife got there that I didn't need to worry about that. That this is what W wants, but its going to take a little time to get through feelings of OM.
I never even thought about havin to deal with that aspect through all of this.
Watching her get over another guy is so incredibly hard.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it