Bluedown...I am right there with you in my sitch. W has so emotionally and physically detached it isnt funny. We can have decent conversations other than the M that are pretty pleasant, and we both do little favors for eachother (she brought me back a hoagie for dinner tonight which was unexpected)....but seriously, I know that for now she is done with the M and that I continue to existr in the house only because I have been DB'ing my a$$ off for two months.

I only keep repeating this on this forum so others dont feel alone in their sitch.

Your doing awesome, hang in there.

Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013