. your text demonstrated that you're more concerned with how you feel, when she is not interested in that, but if you reread db and the 37 rules you may see this as part of a typical pattern and not more than that. .
Not sure I understand what you mean?
She means you keep pushing YOUR agenda on your W!! YOU want to get back together, not HER!! She doesn't want that! Every time you remind her you're saying "you and I want different things, and all I care about is what I want." DB basics tell you to remove all pressure from the WAS. Don't EVER initiate R, M or D talks. Paradoxically, she has to learn to miss you before she'll consider reconciling. As long as you throw yourself out there are plan B she'll never learn to miss you.
Thanks for the clarification AS. Makes sense
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB
